Too many questions…..maximum answers……..

Why do marriages fail and relationships just trail off?
I have seen some amazing relationships fall apart and some weird couples making it through…but somehow I never came across that X factor that binds a relationship real close….Is it the interest that you gradually lose in your partner? Is love all about lust at first sight or is it really deep …if it is deep rooted then why does it wither away? There are so many questions which you want to ask yourself….what went wrong…where did I go wrong….but the problem is that these questions are triggered by the conscience when its too late…they say…better late than never….but what if it is already late enough??? Or what if it isn’t????


Is it fair enough for a couple in a relationship/ marriage to look outside for some fun?
Temptations are too strong too resist, especially the ones, which tamper with your libido. However, this fact is very much applicable to women as much as it is for men. With everything said and done, couples tend to outgrow each other; the sad part is that instead of trying to bring some spice in their life they try to search for the zing outside their relationship…which somehow they always get!! And with that zing/ fun comes the comparison of your partner with the added spice in your life which can either bring you back for good or take you away for better or for worse…Can this “some fun” be called infidelity and is it acceptable? Is it easy enough for a woman to take back her straying husband or vice versa? They say…variety is the spice of life….but is it the truth of life too????


How far will you go to save your marriage/ to make your relationship work?
Giving each other enough of space- can that be the mantra to survival. Why do we have to take so many extra steps to make a relationship work? Occasionally, it’s disheartening to see these efforts being made for somebody who doesn’t even deserve it. Making a sacrifice or giving up something for your partner doesn’t guarantee the sustained compatibility of your relationship….then why do we adjust and move and adjust and move……why can’t we just move on with the one we love…Is it so hard to make a relationship work.. they say love is priceless….. then why do we pay heavily for it?